A year ago today I went out with the most wonderful guy...and decided to keep him. My journal entry for that day reads, "Wow! Maybe I've actually met a genuine, mentally sound, intelligent, nice guy! And I find him attractive. Bonus!"
And later, upon commute inspired reflection: "He seems to be both secure/accepting of himself and of others. He has boundaries and limitations, hopes, values, dreams with enough flexibility to allow for another person."
That was just after talking, texting, and lunch. And y'know what? I was right.
So maybe you CAN trust your instincts after all!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your anniversary!!